Do you scream and yell or are you calm, cool, and collected? Discover your communication style and tips on how to improve your relationship communication.
1. When on a date, do you...?
Listen moreTalk more
Listen & talk equally
2. When your partner comes home after a hard day at work and starts to tell you about their day, do you...?
Listen sympatheticallyApologize and offer a hug
Pretend to listen while tuning them out
3. When you get in a fight, you...?
Try to work things out rationallyScream and yell
Apologize, even if it wasn't your fault
4. When engaging in a heated conversation, do you...?
Look your partner in the eyeLook away often or stare at your lap
Stare your partner down or narrow your eyes
5. While arguing, do you...?
Use "you" statements such as "You always" or "You never"Use "I" statements such as "I feel this way because..."
Apologize
6. Do you feel that you are...?
ConfrontationalNon-confrontational
A good balance
7. Do you use the terms "always" and "never" when arguing (ie. "You never do this right" or "You always do this wrong")?
Never, because I want to keep the peaceAlways, because I want to win the argument
On occasion, but I try not to
8. In a relationship, do you feel ...?
InferiorSuperior
Equal
9. When talking or arguing, is your voice...?
Soft, even inaudible at pointsLoud, sometimes even yelling
Firm, but not loud
10. When it comes to yours and your partner's feelings, do you...?
Always consider your feelings equallyAlways put your partners feelings ahead of your own
Always put your own feelings ahead of your partners
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4 comments:
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For Special 4 U :
Assertive - You've got the right balance with give and take between you and your partner. You respect one another and while you may sometimes lean away from the middle in one direction or the other, you always find your way back together.
deon here~my answer is-
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To deaon:
Aggressive - You tend to put your own rights and feelings above your partner, minimizing your partner's self worth. You often criticize your partner and make them feel unimportant, even if you don't mean to do so. Work on talking more and yelling less. Before you fight, stop and ask yourself "is it really worth an argument?" Remember that it's all about meeting in the middle.
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